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40 Things I Learned Before Turning 40
I am turning the big 4 – 0 this year. I am extremely blessed and grateful to still be here on Earth and equally nostalgic for all the wonderful experiences I have had so far. I wanted to make a list of the important lessons that I have learned, as I hope to impress these upon my sons. They are good reminders for everyone!
In no particular order:
- Having children is like having your heart walk around outside your body.
- Count your blessings not your worries.
- Everyone is fighting some sort of battle; be kind and brave.
- We are all the same on the inside; don’t judge others.
- Be thankful.
- Have hobbies, and make a lot of time for them.
- Life shouldn’t just be lived; it should be celebrated.
- Saving $10 off a $50 purchase is still requiring you to spend $40, so make sure you need it. If it’s a want, make sure you can afford it: spend money wisely.
- Do something every day your future self will be proud of: Work hard. Exercise. Save money.
- Dance. Participate in life. (Don’t just be a spectator.)
- Make vacations a priority.
- Keep annual traditions alive.
- Take pictures and print them!
- Be passionate about something, and let others be passionate about their interests.
- Make goals each year (personal and professional, and write them down.
- Life’s not fair; you’re not entitled to anything
- Laughter is important.
- Everything is comparative – experience, age, wealth, etc.
- Eat healthfully to stay healthy.
- Exercise to feel good.
- Maintain a good moral compass.
- Be a good friend, be a nice brother/sister, be a loving son/daughter.
- Throughout life make choices (not sacrifices).
- Spend time with people who treat you well.
- Never get in the car with a drunken driver.
- Have goals and work hard, but not too hard.
- Be silly once in a while (dress up in a costume and run a 5K just because).
- Sometimes a C is good enough (but getting all As is ok too!).
- Remember the good times and learn from the bad times, but then let them go.
- It’s better to be kind than to be right.
- Help others whenever you can.
- Life is short; don’t sweat the small stuff.
- Live in the moment, and use each day as a gift.
- There are two kinds of prayers: “Thank you” and “Help” (and God understands our prayers, even when we can’t find the words to say them).
- Girls can do anything boys can do, and boys can do anything girls can do!
- If you have to keep it a secret, you probably shouldn’t be doing it.
- If you treat people nicely, and with respect, they will usually do the same for you.
- When all else fails, use common sense!
- I have a lot more to learn …
Did I miss any? What’s your biggest life lesson? Post it in the comments.