One of my favorite pictures is of my oldest son standing in front of school on the first day of kindergarten. With his giant backpack straps over both shoulders, a funky dinosaur shirt on and a fresh haircut, he is smiling so big his cheeks are pinchable. Since then, we take a picture every year on the first day of school. Every school year marks a rite of passage. A fresh start. A time to turn all the anticipation into energy for learning.
When Jordan started kindergarten, we also started another tradition – books to start the school year. The night before the first day of kindergarten, we read The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn with illustrations by Ruth E. Harper and Nancy M. Leak. It’s about a small raccoon who is scared to be away from his mother, but the raccoon mama kisses her little one’s paw and reminds him she is always with him. My husband and I each wrote a letter to Jordan on the inside cover of The Kissing Hand, and we read them to him the night before kindergarten started. When we shared it with him, he said, “That’s really nice.” We’ll be giving it to Danny now that he’s going to kindergarten this year.
Now my husband and I choose a book to give to each of our sons each year to capture the moment in time. Inside the front cover, we write our letters sharing how proud of them we are and our hopes for them that school year. We’ve chosen books that share a special message appropriate to their grade level and maturity but also might help them be brave, develop empathy and believe in their dreams. Books are magical, and talking about the characters and their experiences help us have discussions with our own kids about how we act and treat others.
Here are the books we have chosen for kindergarten through fifth grade:
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn with illustrations by Ruth E. Harper and Nancy M. Leak
A small raccoon who is scared to be away from his mother finds comfort in the kisses his mama plants on his paw, a reminder she is always with him.
The Story of Ferdinand by Munro Leaf with illustrations by Robert Lawson
Ferdinand is big and strong but he would rather sit by himself on his favorite hill and smell flowers than fight the other bulls.
Extra Yarn by Mac Barnett with illustrations by Jon Klassen
When Annabelle finds a magical box of yarn, she knits sweaters for everyone and everything and finds that her generosity is invaluable.
The One and Only Ivan by Katherine Applegate
Ivan the gorilla is resigned to his shopping mall life until a baby elephant comes to live with him and he becomes determined to help her find a better fate.
The Strange Case of Origami Yoda by Tom Angleberger
Tommy and his friends debate whether the origami Yoda Dwight wears on his finger is real as they survive sixth grade.
Wonder by RJ Palacio
Up until now, Auggie hasn’t been able to attend school for medical reasons, but now he’s facing fifth grade for the first time and finding friends who accept him for who he is despite his physical differences.
We have a special shelf for these books, and I hope they’ll be stories they return to throughout their lives and maybe even share with their own kids and grandkids someday. But most importantly, I know this tradition comforts me as much as it helps my kids transition from summer to the school year.
If you want to support local businesses, here are some independent bookstores in and around Lake county that you can visit. And be sure to check out Melissa’s post about Independent Book Stores in Lake County for more information!
Lake Forest Book Store
680 N. Western Avenue, Lake Forest | 847-234-4420
Read Between The Lynes
129 E Van Buren Street, Woodstock |(815) 206-5967
The Book Bin
1151 Church Street, Northbrook | 847-498-4999
The Book Stall at Chestnut Court
811 Elm Street, Winnetka |(847) 446-8880