I spend a lot of time in my minivan driving four kids here and there, there and here. It’s one of the few places where I can actually think, sometimes. These are my thoughts, scribbled on napkins and receipts. A monthly look into raising kids and living in Lake County.
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You may see the stories on iO Improv, or our Spring Break in Chicago series and wonder why? Or pass right over them thinking “This is Little LAKE County” and yes, we are all already aware of the big city looming south of us. Maybe you pass these stories up with a shake of the head or a scoff. Take the kids to the city? Pay for that parking? Why bother?
Why? Because it’s part of our experience, and we think you should experience it too.
We tell you about our experiences, both in and around Lake County and in the city because when you live so close to a world-class city you need to take advantage of it. You owe it to yourself and your children to be willing to explore it.
We’re really quite lucky in this way. Living so close to all that a big city has to offer, yet we get to drive home at night to our comfortable suburban homes. Part of what makes living in Lake County so great is our proximity to the city, yet in our day-to-day we can enjoy the convenience, fresh air and green spaces of Lake County. Can you imagine carrying an infant bucket seat up the stairs of your three-story walk-up apartment? No thanks! But a drive in the car or a ride on the Metra means we can access the same entertainment for much less than Bucktown rent.
When I was a kid living in the northwest suburbs (not Lake County, much closer to the city,) we used to visit frequently – small ethnic stores, favorite parks and beaches. However every time we drove “into the city” meaning we went Downtown or to the museum campus it was a big deal. My parents sweated and complained, traffic made them mad and the getting there was generally unpleasant. I was well into my 20’s before I drove into the scary city on my own, in fact I worked in the South Loop for a year at the mercy of the El before taking the plunge and driving in myself.
A few months of driving around the city and you know what, it’s not scary! It’s just crowded and busy. After five years of commuting into the South Loop for work, I can say I have seen as bad, or worse traffic in the suburbs. Hello? Two lane roads and tractors? Fog? Route 120?
The reason we take our kids in the city and encourage you to do so as well is because it’s worth it. Dare I say there is more experience and educational value in one day in the city, whatever you do, than another week of soccer camp?
I will never, never forget the first time (high school) I went to the Art Institute with my parents. We took the train and a bus, and that bus ride was almost as much an education as the Monet exhibit. I learned more about socioeconomic status, culture, people and how privileged my suburban life was in one short bus ride than in 4 years of college.
If you haven’t taken your kids into the city yet, vow to make this summer the time you try. Start small, visit the outskirts, like Andersonville and the Swedish American Museum. Visit a classic that you remember from school field trips as a child, the museums offer free and discount days. Or visit someplace you have never been, like the Notebaert Nature Museum.
Yes, it will take all day. Yes, there will be traffic. Yes, it will cost more. But the kids will think you are the coolest parent ever. They may even have something to write about for their next school report.